Who a week on, week off schedule suits
Week on, week off often suits older children and teenagers. They can manage a week away from one parent, and they value fewer moves. For younger children, many families start with a 2-2-3 or 2-2-5-5 and move to alternating weeks later.
Some families add a midweek dinner with the other parent, so the gap feels shorter.
Common variations
Friday changeover
Hand over at Friday school pickup, so each parent starts their week with a weekend.
Sunday changeover
Hand over on Sunday evening, so each week starts fresh on Monday.
With a midweek visit
Add a dinner or an afternoon with the other parent in the middle of the week. In Casewell this is a daytime visit.
Making it work day to day
- Pick a changeover day that lines up with school, and keep the time the same.
- Keep a list of what moves each week: school bag, medicine, chargers, sports kit.
- If you add a midweek visit, write it into the schedule so it is easy to see.
- Record any swapped week or holiday change the day it is agreed.