Who a 2-2-3 schedule suits
Family professionals often suggest a 2-2-3 for babies, toddlers and young school children, because the gaps are short. Older children and teens sometimes find the constant moving tiring and ask for longer blocks, such as a 2-2-5-5 or week on, week off.
It also asks a lot of the adults. Parents need to live close together and keep handovers smooth, because they happen every two or three days.
Common variations
Fixed handover days
Some families hand over on the same days each week, such as Monday, Wednesday and Friday. The nights still alternate, but the exchange days stay predictable.
Hand over at school
One parent drops the children at school and the other collects them. This keeps exchanges short and neutral.
Move to 2-2-5-5 later
When children are older, many families switch to a 2-2-5-5. It keeps the same weekdays with each parent and halves the handovers.
Making it work day to day
- Agree on a handover time and place, and keep it the same each time.
- Keep a shared list of what moves between homes: school bag, medicine, sports kit.
- Write down any swap the day it is agreed, with the reason. Over months, small swaps change the real split.
- If an exchange is late or missed, note the time and what was said while it is fresh.