Private custody journal

A custody journal app for calm, factual records — for UK parents

Private, factual records for UK families, with dated entries, source files and focused PDF exports for a solicitor or mediator.

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Keep a clear, factual record of your co-parenting history

A clearer way to prepare

Come to court ready, not stressed.

Turn messages, receipts and everyday notes into a clear solicitor-ready record.

What this means in the UK

A custody journal app for calm, factual records — for UK parents

A useful UK record does not try to sound like a witness statement. It keeps the applicable arrangement, the event, the recorded time and the supporting source distinct. Use neutral language and preserve the unedited original.

England and Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland have separate family-law systems. Keep the wording used by the order or agreement rather than importing a label from another jurisdiction. A family solicitor can explain what belongs in a statement, exhibit, disclosure or private preparation file.

When a review is needed, make a working copy and select the shortest sequence that answers the question. The complete archive remains private, with ordinary events and later corrections still available as context.

What belongs in the journal

Record events that change arrangements, responsibilities or your child’s day-to-day experience.

01

Parenting-time changes

Late, missed or changed collections and handovers, including the agreed plan, actual times, location and any notice given.

02

Communication outcomes

Requests, confirmations and unanswered messages when the outcome affects arrangements—not a running commentary on every conversation.

03

Child-related expenses

The item, amount, date, who paid, any request for contribution and the receipt or invoice that supports the entry.

04

School, health and wellbeing

Appointments, school information and observable effects on the child, using concrete details rather than diagnoses or assumptions.

05

Agreements and follow-up

What was agreed, the source of the agreement, any deadline and what happened next, so the entry remains understandable months later.

06

Photos, receipts and documents

Keep supporting files linked to the event they explain, with enough context to understand why each file matters.

A reliable entry

Write for a reader who was not there.

01

Start with the plan

State the expected date, time, place or responsibility and identify where that expectation came from.

02

Describe the observation

Use exact times, actions and words where they matter. Keep assumptions about motives separate from what you directly observed.

03

Add the outcome

Record any practical effect, supporting file and next step. If something is corrected later, preserve the correction with its context.

Example of factual structure

Instead of “They were late again and did not care,” record: “Collection was arranged for 17:00. The other parent arrived at 17:42. I did not record any notice of delay before collection.” The second version identifies the plan, observable event and limit of the record.

Keep the journal selective

A stronger journal does not catalogue ordinary irritation. Leave out insults, predictions, diagnoses and claims about motive. Include an event when it changes an arrangement, creates a practical impact, records an agreement or connects to material you may genuinely need to review.

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Optional factual rewrite

Optional factual rewrite

Start in your own words, then use Make factual to produce a clearer, more neutral draft. The original remains available and you decide whether to accept the change.

Focused reports for professional review

Focused reports for professional review

Choose the records that matter and create a readable PDF with event dates, saved revisions and linked supporting material, ready to take into a conversation with a solicitor, mediator or other professional.

FAQ

Questions before you start.

Should I record good or uneventful handovers?

Occasional routine entries help show a consistent habit and establish what normal looks like. You don't need a lengthy note when nothing material happened.

Should each child have a separate journal?

Tag each entry to the relevant child or children. Separate views are useful, but a shared event should remain one entry rather than conflicting duplicates.

Can I correct an entry?

Correct obvious errors transparently. Preserve the original recorded time and keep a dated edit or addendum so a reader can see what changed.

Written on the hard days.
Ready for the day it matters.

Every entry becomes part of a clear, court-ready PDF.