CasewellThe law in plain words
Under HRS § 571-46, "custody should be awarded to either parent or to both parents according to the best interests of the child."
Wondering who usually ends up with custody? Our page on the chances of getting full custody in Hawaii explains what the figures can and cannot show.
Legal custody and physical custody
Hawaii orders deal with two kinds of custody.
- Legal custody: who makes the important decisions for the child. With joint legal custody, parents decide together, and one can be given the tie-breaking say.
- Physical custody: where the child lives day to day.
- Joint custody: both parents have legal custody and share physical custody under a parenting plan.
- Joint legal only: a court can order joint legal custody without joint physical custody.
People often say "full custody," but it is not a legal term in Hawaii. Parents are normally awarded reasonable visitation, at the judge's discretion. It can be refused if it would not serve the child.
Is Hawaii a 50/50 state?
No. Hawaii has no presumption of joint custody or equal time.
- Joint custody: a judge may award it when either parent asks, at the judge's discretion.
- Investigation: either parent can ask the court to order a custody investigation first.
- Not equal time: court-hosted guidance says joint physical custody "does not mean 50-50 time sharing."
- Contact: the judge may weigh frequent, continuing contact with each parent, unless a parent cannot act in the child's interests.
In a contested case, each parent must file a parenting plan at the start.
The 16 best-interest factors
Under HRS § 571-46(b), the court must consider these factors, among others:
- any history of sexual or physical abuse of a child by a parent
- any history of neglect or emotional abuse of a child by a parent
- the overall quality of the parent-child relationship
- each parent's caregiving before and after separation
- each parent's cooperation on a plan for the child's needs
- the child's physical health needs
- the child's emotional needs
- the child's safety needs
- the child's educational needs
- the child's need for relationships with siblings
- each parent's support for the child's family connections
- what each parent has done to keep the child's needs separate from their own
- any past or current drug or alcohol abuse by a parent
- each parent's mental health
- the areas and levels of conflict in the family
- a parent's willful misuse of protective orders to gain an advantage
No single factor automatically decides custody. Factors 5 and 11 are dropped if the court finds a parent committed family violence. Factor 16 needs strong, clear evidence of misuse, and of a future inability to co-parent. Withdrawing a petition alone does not count as misuse.
Your child's preference
Hawaii sets no age at which a child decides. The child's wishes count if the child is old and mature enough to form an intelligent preference.
- Testifying: children are not automatically required to testify in open court. A child is called as a witness only with the court's approval.
- A voice, not a vote: court guidance says a child's views may reach the judge through an evaluator, guardian ad litem or other appointee.
- Custody evaluators: the court may order an investigation and report. Evaluators are usually licensed and must take domestic violence training every three years.
- Guardian ad litem: the court may appoint one to represent the child, and order either or both parents to pay.
The Judiciary keeps a public registry of private custody evaluators and their fees.
Mothers' and fathers' rights
Neither parent starts ahead. Hawaii Supreme Court decisions, summarized in the notes to § 571-46, say neither parent has "any preferred status."
A parent's disability alone cannot decide custody. A judge who relies on it must explain why in writing.
A father's chances depend on the same evidence as anyone's: his caregiving, his home and the child's needs.
If you were never married
Hawaii's current Uniform Parentage Act is chapter 584A, in effect since January 1, 2026. The parent-child relationship is the same whether or not the parents married.
- Acknowledgment of parentage: both parents sign it under oath, following the chapter 584A procedure.
- Changing your mind: a signer can cancel within 60 days, or before a court or agency hearing about the child, if sooner.
- After that: it can be challenged only for fraud, threats or pressure, or a serious mistake about the facts.
- Time limits: the rules for challenging parentage depend on the type of claim. Get advice before you rely on a deadline.
Under HRS § 577-3, both legal parents have equal rights to custody until a court orders otherwise. An unmarried father must first establish parentage, by acknowledgment or court order.
On Oahu, a Petition to Determine Parentage asks for both parentage and custody.
Family violence
If a court finds a parent committed family violence, the law creates a presumption against giving that parent custody. A presumption is a starting assumption that parent can try to disprove. The court's safety findings shape what happens next.
- Safety first: the safety of the child and the victim parent becomes the primary factor.
- Leaving home: a parent who fled because of violence will not have that held against them.
- Visits: the abusive parent gets visitation only if the child and victim can be kept safe.
- Conditions: supervised visits, protected exchanges, no alcohol or drugs before visits, or no overnights.
- Counseling: a victim can be referred, but not ordered, to counseling.
For custody, family violence means physical harm, fear of physical harm, or coerced sex. Coercive control is not in this definition. Controlling behavior can still matter as evidence about safety and conflict.
Protective orders
A temporary restraining order can be granted without notice to the other parent. Filing is free.
- Custody: the temporary order itself does not set custody. The protective order made after the hearing may include temporary custody or visitation terms.
- The hearing: usually within 15 days of the temporary order. If the other parent has not been served, it can be reset up to 90 days out.
- How long: a temporary order lasts up to 180 days, or until a protective order takes effect.
- Protective order: lasts for a fixed period the judge chooses, and can be extended.
- Remote attendance: a petitioner alleging domestic abuse can attend the hearing remotely.
Emergency steps depend on the court, the island and when you file. Ask the Family Court clerk how to request urgent protection or temporary custody. On Oahu, call the protective order unit at 808-538-5959.
Emergency and temporary orders
- During a divorce: on Oahu, file a Motion and Declaration for Pre-Decree Relief. It can ask for temporary legal and physical custody.
- Without notice: a court rule allows a restraining order without notice if sworn facts show immediate relief is needed. A prompt hearing must follow.
- Abuse: use the protective order process above.
- Faster hearing: Oahu has a form to ask the court to move a hearing up.
Hawaii courts can also act in an emergency to protect a child who is in the state.
Moving with your child
Hawaii has no general statewide mileage or notice rule for moves. But your order or parenting plan may require notice or court approval. The child's best interests decide, not the parents' interests.
- No head start: no single factor gets presumed weight, the Supreme Court said in Fisher v. Fisher (2006).
- Out-of-state moves: the Supreme Court has noted how much a move out of Hawaii affects the other parent.
- Video calls: visits by video cannot be used to justify a move.
- Old decree clauses: a clause that changes custody automatically on a move needs a fresh best-interests finding.
If the court finds the other parent committed family violence, a move to escape it cannot count against you.
Changing custody
Under § 571-46, a custody order can change whenever the child's best interests require it.
Since Waldecker v. O'Scanlon (2016), Hawaii needs no separate "material change in circumstances." There is one test: whether circumstances have changed so a new order serves the child.
On Oahu, file a Motion and Declaration for Post-Decree Relief, with a Custody and Visitation Statement. Judges can sanction parents who file repeat motions without reason.
Kids First, mediation and classes
- Classes: the court may order parents and children to attend parenting classes or counseling.
- Kids First on Oahu: both parents must attend, and so must children aged 6 to 17, unless excused.
- Skipping it: can be weighed in custody, and can delay the decree.
- Other islands: Maui and Kauai run Kids First programs. On Hawaii Island, check with the Hilo or Kona court.
- Mediation: the court may order it, with costs usually split. A victim of abuse cannot be forced into it against their wishes.
Act 89, approved on June 5, 2026, extends that protection to qualifying parentage cases. A person alleging domestic abuse cannot be required to mediate against their wishes.
How to file for custody in Hawaii
Hawaii must usually be the child's home state, meaning the child lived there for the six months before filing.
- Choose the case type. Married parents ask for custody in a divorce. Unmarried parents file a parentage case.
- Pick the circuit. For divorce, where you live when you file. For parentage, where the child or a parent lives.
- Get the forms. The Judiciary offers free guided interviews that fill them in.
- File a parenting plan if custody is contested.
- Serve the other parent, and attend Kids First if ordered.
The Hawaii Judiciary forms page covers every island. The Legal Aid Society of Hawaii takes calls at 808-536-4302 on Oahu, or 1-800-499-4302 from other islands.
How much does it cost to file for custody in Hawaii?
Filing fees are set by HRS § 607-5. These are the amounts it lists, last checked October 24, 2026.
| Filing | Fee |
|---|---|
| Divorce | $100 |
| Parentage case | $100 |
| Other Family Court case, including custody | $15 |
| Temporary restraining order | Free |
Ask the Family Court clerk to confirm the total, and whether separate charges apply.
If you cannot afford fees, ask the court to waive them. The form's name varies by island. On Oahu, it is an Ex Parte Motion and Declaration to Waive Filing Fees.
What changed recently
- January 1, 2026: a new Uniform Parentage Act replaced the old one, with gender-neutral rules.
- 2026: Act 231 lets licensed mental health counselors serve as custody evaluators.
- June 5, 2026: Act 89 protects abuse victims from forced mediation in parentage cases.
- July 1, 2024: custody evaluators must take domestic violence training every three years.
- 2021: a divorce is filed where you live when you file.
The main custody statute has not changed since 2013. Last checked October 24, 2026.
Building the record
Hawaii judges weigh each parent's caregiving before and after separation, and how parents put the child first. Those questions are answered with dates, not adjectives.
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Is Hawaii a 50/50 custody state?
No. Hawaii has no presumption of joint custody or equal time. Joint custody is up to the judge, and it does not mean 50/50.
What is legal custody in Hawaii?
Legal custody is the right to make important decisions for a child. With joint legal custody, parents decide together.
Who has custody if the parents are not married in Hawaii?
Under HRS § 577-3, both legal parents have equal custody rights until a court rules. An unmarried father must first establish parentage, and a parentage case can set custody too.
At what age can a child choose which parent to live with in Hawaii?
No age lets a child choose. The judge considers the wishes of a child mature enough to form an intelligent preference.
How much does it cost to file for custody in Hawaii?
The statute lists $100 for a divorce or parentage case, and $15 for other Family Court cases, including custody. Confirm the total with the clerk. Fees can be waived.
Can I move out of Hawaii with my child?
Hawaii has no general statewide rule on moves, but your order or parenting plan may require notice or approval. The judge decides on the child's best interests.
Sources
This page summarizes Hawaii Revised Statutes chapters 571, 580, 584A and 586, Family Court rules and appellate decisions, as of October 2026. It explains the law in general terms and is not legal advice.
- HRS § 571-46 — custody criteria and the 16 factors checked
- HRS § 571-46.1 — joint custody checked
- HRS § 577-3 — parents as joint natural guardians checked
- HRS § 586-5 — temporary restraining orders and hearings checked
- Waldecker v. O'Scanlon, Hawaii Supreme Court (2016) checked
- DJ v. CJ, Hawaii Supreme Court (2020) — relocation checked
- HRS § 607-5 — court filing fees checked
- Hawaii Judiciary — court forms checked
- Hawaii Judiciary — Family Court protective orders checked