The law in plain words
Under N.J.S.A. 9:2-4, as amended in 2026, New Jersey's policy is that "the protection and welfare, both physically and emotionally, of minor children are held paramount."
Wondering who usually ends up with custody? Our page on the chances of getting full custody in New Jersey explains what the figures can and cannot show.
Types of custody
The statute lets a court order three kinds of arrangement.
- Joint custody: both parents share legal custody, physical custody or both.
- Sole custody: one parent has custody, with parenting time for the other.
- Any other arrangement the court finds is in the child's best interests.
Joint legal custody means both parents share major decisions about the child. The courts' self-help pages call a parent with the child at least 51% of the time the primary residential parent.
A custody case between parents who are not divorcing is filed on the "FD" docket, for non-dissolution cases.
What changed in January 2026
P.L.2025, chapter 316, was signed on January 20, 2026, and took effect immediately. It amended the custody statute.
- Safety first: custody decisions must promote children's safety "as a threshold issue."
- Continuing contact: continuing contact with both parents remains part of the policy, but protection and welfare come first and contact must serve the child.
- New factors: child abuse, the safety of siblings and input from the child's own therapist.
- The child's voice: a judge who rules against a child's stated preference must explain why on the record.
- Therapy limits: new rules restrict court-ordered reunification programs.
The law did not create a joint custody presumption, and it does not weigh the factors.
Is New Jersey a 50/50 state?
No. New Jersey has no presumption of joint custody or equal time.
The statute says the rights of both parents are equal. If both parents agree on an arrangement, the court must order it, unless it is against the child's best interests.
Bills to presume joint legal and physical custody, A2963 and S2008, were introduced in January 2026. They have not passed.
The 15 custody factors
Section 9:2-4 lists factors the court must consider, along with anything else relevant:
- the parents' ability to agree, communicate and cooperate about the child
- each parent's willingness to accept custody, and any refusal of parenting time not based on substantiated abuse
- the child's relationship with parents and siblings
- any history of domestic violence and child abuse
- the safety of the child, the child's siblings and either parent
- the child's preference, if old enough to reason
- input from a licensed mental health professional treating the child
- the child's needs
- the stability of each home
- the quality and continuity of the child's education
- each parent's fitness, including court-ordered assessments
- how close the parents live to each other
- the time each parent spent with the child before and after separation
- each parent's work responsibilities
- the age and number of children
If parents disagree, the judge must state on the record the factors behind the arrangement ordered.
Your child's preference
New Jersey sets no age at which a child decides. The judge weighs the preference of a child "of sufficient age and capacity to reason."
Since January 2026, a judge who orders an arrangement against the child's stated preference must explain why on the record.
Under court rule 5:8-6, the judge may interview the child privately in chambers. The interview is recorded.
The 2026 law adds one exception. When a judge is deciding whether to order therapy, a mature child who asks to speak to the judge must be heard off the record.
Mothers' and fathers' rights
Neither parent starts ahead. The statute says "the rights of both parents shall be equal."
A parent is not unfit unless their conduct has a substantial adverse effect on the child.
Under N.J.S.A. 9:17-40, the parent and child relationship applies equally to every parent, married or not.
If you were never married
No New Jersey statute gives either unmarried parent custody by default. Legal Services of New Jersey says both parents have equal rights to seek custody.
- Certificate of Parentage: signing one, often at the hospital, is a legal finding of paternity.
- Changing your mind: it can be cancelled within 60 days, or by the date a support order is entered, if sooner.
- Deadline: a parentage case can be brought until the child turns 23.
Unmarried parents file a custody case on the FD docket.
Taking or hiding a child to keep them from the other parent can be a crime, even before any custody order.
Reunification and a child's reluctance
The 2026 law added new limits.
- No assumptions: a court may not presume a child's reluctance to see a parent was caused by the other parent.
- No reward for abuse: an abusive parent cannot get more custody just to repair the relationship.
- Consent needed: a program to reunite a resisting child with an estranged parent needs both parents' consent. The child must also be old enough.
- Evidence needed: court-ordered therapy needs good cause and scientific support.
Domestic violence
Domestic violence and child abuse are custody factors under 9:2-4.
In a restraining order case, the court can award temporary custody. It must presume custody to the non-abusive parent serves the child.
- No mediation: while a temporary or final restraining order is in effect, no one can be ordered to mediate custody.
- Parenting time: it can be suspended after an emergency hearing if access threatens the child.
- Coercive control: threats to interfere with custody are a factor in restraining order cases.
A parent convicted of sexual assault cannot get custody or visitation, unless clear and convincing evidence shows it serves the child.
Emergency custody
If a child faces immediate harm, you can ask for an emergent hearing. This uses an Order to Show Cause, form CN 11523.
The courts say an emergency request must be "the only way to prevent immediate harm." There is no fee for a first filing.
A temporary restraining order in a domestic violence case can also set a temporary custody and parenting time plan.
New Jersey courts can act in an emergency to protect a child who is in the state.
Moving with your child
Under N.J.S.A. 9:2-2, a child generally cannot be moved out of New Jersey without both parents' consent or a court order. An older child's own consent also counts. The rule covers children born in New Jersey or who have lived there five years.
In Bisbing v. Bisbing (2017), the New Jersey Supreme Court replaced the older Baures test. Where parents share legal custody, the court now asks whether the move is in the child's best interests. It uses the 9:2-4 factors.
A move within New Jersey is not a removal under 9:2-2. It can still be a change in circumstances that justifies changing custody.
Changing a custody order
To change custody, you must show changed circumstances that affect the child's welfare. The Appellate Division set this out in Hand v. Hand (2007).
The process has two steps:
- A first showing: your papers must show a real change.
- A full hearing: if the papers also show a real factual dispute about the child's welfare, the court holds a plenary hearing.
In an FD case, the form is CN 11487. Filing it costs $25.
Parenting plans, mediation and classes
If parents cannot agree, each files a Custody and Parenting Time Plan. It is due 75 days after the last responsive pleading, or 14 days after mediation fails.
- Mediation: genuine custody disputes go to court mediation. It normally lasts no more than two months, unless extended for good cause.
- FD cases: every case is screened for a consent conference, where parents can try to settle.
- Divorce cases: each parent attends the Parents' Education Program, for $25. No one is sent while a restraining order is in effect.
Mediation is not ordered while a domestic violence restraining order is in effect.
How to file for custody in New Jersey
File in the Superior Court, Chancery Division, Family Part, in the county where the child lives. New Jersey must usually be the child's home state for six months.
- Complete the complaint. Use the Verified Complaint, form CN 11492, from the courts' FD filing kit.
- Add the custody forms. Include a Certification of Non-Military Service and a Confidential Litigant Information Sheet.
- File at the courthouse or online.
- Let the court serve it. In FD cases, the Family Part mails the papers to the other parent.
- Attend any conference the court sets, then mediation if the dispute continues.
The New Jersey Courts custody self-help pages walk through each step.
How much does it cost to file for custody in New Jersey?
New Jersey's custody filing fees are low.
| Filing | Fee |
|---|---|
| First FD custody complaint | Free |
| Asking for child support with it | $6 |
| Asking to change an FD custody order, form CN 11487 | $25 |
| Parents' Education Program, divorce cases | $25 each |
| Registering an out-of-state order | $35 |
If your income and assets are low, you can ask the court to waive fees.
Building the record
New Jersey judges must put their reasons on the record when parents disagree. Communication, refused time and the child's daily care are all shown by dates.
Note each exchange and each disagreement as it happens. Casewell keeps those notes and the messages behind them together, so a lawyer can read a clear timeline.
Before you record a call or a handover, check whether you can record your co-parent in New Jersey.
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Is New Jersey a 50/50 state for custody?
No. Both parents' rights are equal, but there is no presumption of joint custody or equal time. Bills to create one were introduced in 2026 and have not passed.
What changed in New Jersey's custody law in 2026?
A law signed January 20, 2026 rewrote N.J.S.A. 9:2-4. It puts children's safety first, adds factors such as child abuse and siblings' safety, and limits reunification programs.
Can a 12 year old decide which parent to live with in NJ?
No age lets a child decide. The judge weighs the preference of a child old enough to reason, and must explain any ruling against it.
How do I file for custody in NJ?
File a Verified Complaint, form CN 11492, with the Family Part in the county where the child lives. A first FD custody filing is free.
How far can a parent move with joint custody in New Jersey?
Moving the child out of New Jersey needs both parents' consent or a court order. Under Bisbing, the court decides on the child's best interests.
How much does it cost to file for custody in New Jersey?
A first FD custody complaint is free. Asking to change an FD order costs $25. Fees can be waived if your income and assets are low.
Sources
This page summarizes N.J.S.A. Titles 2A, 2C and 9, as amended by P.L.2025, chapter 316, and New Jersey court rules as of October 2026. It explains the law in general terms and is not legal advice.
- P.L.2025, chapter 316 โ amended N.J.S.A. 9:2-4 (effective January 20, 2026) checked
- New Jersey Courts โ child support and custody self-help checked
- New Jersey Courts โ custody filing fees checked
- New Jersey Courts โ emergent hearings checked
- New Jersey Courts โ FD initial application kit (CN 11492) checked
- New Jersey Court Rules, Rule 5:8 โ custody mediation, plans and interviews checked
- Bisbing v. Bisbing, 230 N.J. 309 (2017) โ relocation checked