Copyable parenting-time row
PERIOD ID: PT-[YEAR]-[NUMBER]
CHILD:
PLANNED START / END:
ACTUAL START / END:
PLANNED LOCATION / EXCHANGE:
ACTUAL LOCATION / EXCHANGE:
PLANNED OVERNIGHTS:
ACTUAL OVERNIGHTS:
PLANNED HOURS:
ACTUAL HOURS:
CHANGE / CANCELLATION INITIATED BY:
NOTICE TIME / CHANNEL:
REASON STATED:
TIME MISSED:
MAKEUP OFFERED:
MAKEUP AGREED:
MAKEUP EXERCISED:
CORROBORATION / EVIDENCE IDS:
CHRONOLOGY LINE:Keep offered, agreed and exercised makeup time separate. An offer isn't the same fact as time that occurred.
Worked weekly reconciliation
Plan: Fri 7 Aug, 17:00 to Mon 10 Aug, 08:00 โ 63 hours and three overnights. Actual: Fri 18:10 to Sun 20:00 โ 49 hours 50 minutes and two overnights. Change: Sunday return requested by Parent B on Thu 6 Aug, 12:14; Parent A agreed at 13:02 in MSG-170. Makeup: one overnight offered for 21 Aug; not yet agreed. Row PT-2026-033 shows a 13-hour-10-minute difference and one fewer overnight, but also shows the revised return was agreed. Chronology: 6โ10 Aug | Parenting time | Agreed early return; actual 49h50 / 2 overnights; makeup offered, pending | PT-2026-033; MSG-170.
Decision tree: what should you count?
- Does an order, agreement or official system define the measure? Use that wording and method first.
- Are you checking a residential schedule? Overnights may be useful, but preserve start and end times.
- Are partial days or school periods important? Calculate actual hours as well.
- Was the schedule revised by agreement? Keep original plan, agreement reference and revised plan before comparing actual time.
- Are you preparing a legal, tax, maintenance or benefits calculation? Don't reuse a private percentage without checking that system's rules; the same calendar may be counted differently.
Jurisdiction-specific terminology
Canada's federal Divorce Act uses parenting time and defines it around the period a person is primarily responsible for the child, which can include school or daycare. England and Wales commonly describe child arrangements as whom a child lives with and spends time with or has contact with. California self-help materials use custody and parenting time (visitation). Australia commonly uses parenting orders and language about a child spending time with a person. Use the term in the governing document and quote the schedule. A label alone doesn't determine how hours, overnights, support or compliance should be calculated.
Build an organized chronology from periods
Keep one row per continuous care period, then add separate event rows for a cancellation, missed exchange or later makeup period. Monthly summary: August | 12 planned periods / 16 overnights | 11 completed / 14 overnights | 1 agreed change | PT-2026-031โ042. Disclose whether your total follows original or revised plans. The chronology should point back to rows, messages and exchange records. Pair it with the exchange log template when the transition itself needs detail, and with how to prove parenting time for source selection.
Should I count hours or overnights?
Keep both when feasible, then use the measure required for your actual purpose. An overnight total can hide short or extended periods, while hours may not match a legal or administrative rule.
Does agreed makeup time erase missed time?
Keep the original variance and the later makeup period as separate facts. Your summary can show both without rewriting the earlier record.
Can I use this log to calculate child support?
It can preserve dates and care periods, but official calculations and definitions vary. Use the relevant authority's method or obtain local advice.
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